It means she was brought into this situation against her will... but she is still as responsible as you and I for how she has reacted to it since. She is responsible, after all, for the state Sodder is in now, and Julia's coma and its resulting eternal nightmare are as much her fault as anyone's. There is room for sympathy, but much room for culpability.

[She didn't react to the snarl. It was understandable.]

I think sparing her, to see that she pays properly for them rather than simply dying in a merciless, meaningless battle... is certainly an appropriate way to look at things. And you're not wrong. There are alway opportunists.

Though try to give your fellow sleepers the benefit of the doubt. I don't think most of them are out for themselves only. [She sighed.]

He will... but it wouldn't hurt to reach out to him. I think in time he'd appreciate it. Just try to be patient, to breathe in and think about why he might have said a thing. It can help. This place makes us want to devour ourselves.